Milandou AKA Young Paris is an internationally acclaimed musician and creative director currently residing in Brooklyn, NY. He is known for his eclectic sound – a culturally nuanced blend of rap and electronic dance music layered over traditional African drumbeats. He has been featured alongside Lenny Kravitz and SZA at Afropunk Festival and is the face of their annual Music Fest in Brooklyn.
Milandou is also the founder of #MelaninMonday, a successful and highly relevant visual movement that celebrates men and women of color. Racial pride is a delicate subject as it is often misconstrued as anti-whiteness – too often these conversations fall to the wayside of status quo and political correctness. #MelaninMonday, on the other hand, is a deeply nuanced movement that empowers melanated peoples by writing them back into the social narrative while focusing on healing and cultural inclusivity.
I was initially drawn to the concept of #MelaninMonday, well before I discovered Young Paris or his music. It epitomized a pristine, non-politicized version of self love that I am still very much in the process of learning. The imagery was carefully curated and executed to depict wholeness and integrity – a refreshing departure from the exotic caricatures that people of color are often drawn up to be. Naturally, when I discovered that the founder of #MelaninMonday was the brother of a friend of mine, I was intrigued.
Working with Milandou was a dream. We drew some inspiration from a Jimmy Nelson portrait and sourced styling elements to visualize his Congolese heritage. We spoke acutely about the nuances that we wanted to evoke and the machismo gender characteristics that we wanted to dispell. When Milandou showed up at my apartment to drop off a suitcase full of discarded fur coats to complete the backdrop, I knew that we were both equally stoked about this collaboration. With the talented Ntangou onboard with us to do the face painting and add final styling touches, we were in capable hands.
Milandou has an inimitable grace about him, a natural regality that we seldom see in our age demographic. His confidence permeates the room, yet he is also deeply cognizant of his family, his community, his heritage. In a society that actively fetishizes wealth and individual desires, Milandou and his music serve as an antidote, a much-needed reminder that integrity is found not in external factors but in our cultural origins.
Maggie and I met up early one subzero Saturday morning, a couple weeks after Jonas and some intermittent snow days later. Last stop on the Q train: Coney Island. The streets were abound with week-old salt and slush – but the Wonder Wheel perched along the distant coastline sparkled in all its vaudevillian glory.
As soon as we met up, Maggie and I became easy friends. Having just returned from a 10-day trip in Thailand, she radiated life and exuberance; conversation flowed easily over paper cups of Dunkin’ Donuts hot chocolate and coffee as we recalled past accounts of wandering through Bangkok fresh markets and nursing lukewarm beers on Khao San Road.
Maggie hails from the Dominican Republic and currently resides in the Bronx. She splits her time between New York, LA, and wherever her travel itinerary takes her. Check out her website here, where she explores a new brand of minimalism – one that focuses less on anti-materialism and more on making room for “passion, contentment, new experiences, happiness…a sense of self.”
The word Islam – which translates to “surrender” – is closely correlated with Arabic salam, or peace. Pre-Islamic Arabia was wrought with destruction and tribal warfare. Personal vendettas led to counter-vendettas, leaving the region polarized and wildly unstable for multiple generations. In early 7th century A.D., Prophet Muhammad saved early Muslim communities from extermination by the powerful city of Mecca, according to scriptures. After ensuring security for his people, he introduced the Koran to promote a campaign of nonviolence. By 632, Muhammad single-handedly brought peace to war-torn Arabia.
Because the Koran was conceived and interpreted during a time of violent warfare, many of its scriptures relate to armed struggle. Indeed, wars of self-defense are permissible, and one is called to fight, like Muhammad, to avoid the kind of persecution that the Mecca inflicted upon early Muslim communities. However, extremists often quote these verses exclusively and completely disregard the Koran’s subsequent exhortations to peace. Muslims may not begin hostilities (2: 190). It is meritorious to forgo revenge in a spirit of charity (5: 45). Muslims must respect and remain emphatic toward Jews and Christians because God “formed [humans] into nations and tribes so that [they] may know one another” (49: 13). Muslims are told that “there must be no coercion in matters of faith” (2: 256) – something Christians can learn from, in my humble opinion – and that they must reach out to others with intelligence and understanding.
Islamaphobia has long plagued Western societies, and is further exacerbated by false assumptions that jihadist organizations somehow represent core values of Islam. Muslims in America have been subject to long-term discrimination and are forced to reclaim their faith in a xenophobic culture that deems them suspect, even after having lived there for multiple generations.
Boshia, a Muslimah from New Jersey, takes us through a visual journey depicting the beauty and dynamism of her faith. Not all Muslims wear niqabs that cover their bodies and faces. Not all Muslims are Islamists, or believe that the Koran endorses an Islamic government. And most importantly, not all Muslimahs are oppressed or disempowered, as Western feminists love to assume.
In a city as uncompromising as New York City, women are exposed to a wide array of life narratives and inevitably, many variations of empowerment and feminism. Is strength found in emulating male dominance? Or embracing every layer of womanhood, with all of its delicate complexities?
Since moving here, I have been privileged enough to meet so many strong, talented, empowered women. Sidewalk NYC – a show featuring local female-fronted bands – was a beautiful manifestation of the sheer abundance of passion and talent embodied by the women of NYC. Enjoy.
Paying someone a genuine compliment is a surprisingly demanding task. First, you must have the emotional capacity to acknowledge good qualities in said person. Second, you must frame it in a way that sounds well-meaning, not facetious or patronizing. Third, you must have the conviction (and self confidence) to look someone in the eye and tell them that you acknowledge their good qualities – without totally creeping them out.
I’m not talking about topical compliments, like “Hey, I like your scarf,” or even “Hey, you’re beautiful.” I’m talking about hard-hitting remarks, like “You have a calmness about you that inspires others.” Boshia is one of those rare human beings that pulls this off on a regular basis with remarkable elegance. We took a walk with her one Saturday morning in her neighborhood to talk about her ongoing projects and to generally bask in her lovely presence. Enjoy.